Tracey Emin, “bad sex/non-orgasmic sex”, who coined the phrase, you should be shot!

So, last night, updating the Orgasm Diary, I was thinking yesterday about my relationship with others in the stimulation area, what it is to have an orgasm and the stigma that can be attached to it if you don’t, Reading Tracey Emin, Bad Sex. There is very little recognition for the need for “bad sex”, its an important part of sexual fulfillment, exploration and desire. Its a leveler, perhaps to call it “bad sex”, which it how it is referred to, as being something which is degrading, embarrassing and shameful. Lets not call it “bad sex”, it should be called “non-orgasmic sex”, and this is a very important type of sexual interaction, you learn of yourself and of others, it teaches appreciation. Hmmm, so much pressure on individuals to obtain climatic conditions, whether solo or assisted, sex and orgasm are not as easily obtainable as the movies make out. Then why is it all taboo?? What’s not being said?